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Thomas Carlton Kelley
January 12, 1950 ~ February 1, 2017 (age 67) 67 Years Old Light a Candle
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Message from Lynne and Jack Slaver
February 12, 2017 1:14 PM
[SHARING A MEMORY– To my Aunt Luella, Jennifer, and Tommy]
"KELLEY'S TOY"
No, this isn't about ‘Lego's or Tonka Trucks’ from the 80's – It's about my Uncle Tom, whom we will all miss; a hardworking man who truly loved his family, until the end! His daughter Jennifer, my cousin, said it well, "He never took a day off and was always working on a project." Whether, he was working on a home repair project, in his garage working on a vehicle, or working creatively with his hands (He was an amazing carpenter and enjoyed restoring old vehicles), he did it to benefit his family. As for me, I'll never forget his love for the water! I loved going camping with my Aunt Luella and Uncle Tom....and going on the lake in "Kelley's Toy"; their boat, was my absolute favorite! My Uncle Tom taught me how to water ski.
Dad's are cool, but an uncle that steps it up to share in your upbringing is even cooler! (It's no secret that my dad wasn't there for us, growing up - we were blessed with many uncles who stepped in) Uncle Tom never tried to take the place of my father. He was always there to help offer the best advice and listen! ‘OK!’ So, he'd have a wrench or socket in his hands, tightening a bolt....but, he was always listening! I can only hope that I'm as cool, loving, and compassionate of an Aunt, as he was an Uncle.
HE BELIEVED IN ME...even when I didn't! I still remember his lectures and frustration with me with not pursuing my artistic talents.(I have always been too modest and insecure with it)
One of my fondest memories (now) is of my uncle asking me to airbrush "Kelley's Toy" on the back of his boat. (I regret now, not ever doing it....I was more concerned about making a mistake and having it not turn out perfectly) Tonight, I'm left with these great memories of "Love!" In retrospect, he didn't care how perfect it turned out, he just wanted to encourage his niece....I'm truly humbled this evening, in this thought!
I wanted to share something very special – I'm a private person on some things – Not many people know this. When I was pregnant with my youngest son Isaiah, I asked Jack if we could name our son Isaiah Slavver after my Uncle Tom, because he was always there for us when we were young, getting on our feet. (Jack and I lived with my Aunt & Uncle for a short time) Of coarse, he agreed, hence why our son: ‘Isaiah (Thomas) Slaver’ was named after my uncle.....I'm so glad we did!
Much Love from your niece and cousin,
~Lynne Ellen
"KELLEY'S TOY"
No, this isn't about ‘Lego's or Tonka Trucks’ from the 80's – It's about my Uncle Tom, whom we will all miss; a hardworking man who truly loved his family, until the end! His daughter Jennifer, my cousin, said it well, "He never took a day off and was always working on a project." Whether, he was working on a home repair project, in his garage working on a vehicle, or working creatively with his hands (He was an amazing carpenter and enjoyed restoring old vehicles), he did it to benefit his family. As for me, I'll never forget his love for the water! I loved going camping with my Aunt Luella and Uncle Tom....and going on the lake in "Kelley's Toy"; their boat, was my absolute favorite! My Uncle Tom taught me how to water ski.
Dad's are cool, but an uncle that steps it up to share in your upbringing is even cooler! (It's no secret that my dad wasn't there for us, growing up - we were blessed with many uncles who stepped in) Uncle Tom never tried to take the place of my father. He was always there to help offer the best advice and listen! ‘OK!’ So, he'd have a wrench or socket in his hands, tightening a bolt....but, he was always listening! I can only hope that I'm as cool, loving, and compassionate of an Aunt, as he was an Uncle.
HE BELIEVED IN ME...even when I didn't! I still remember his lectures and frustration with me with not pursuing my artistic talents.(I have always been too modest and insecure with it)
One of my fondest memories (now) is of my uncle asking me to airbrush "Kelley's Toy" on the back of his boat. (I regret now, not ever doing it....I was more concerned about making a mistake and having it not turn out perfectly) Tonight, I'm left with these great memories of "Love!" In retrospect, he didn't care how perfect it turned out, he just wanted to encourage his niece....I'm truly humbled this evening, in this thought!
I wanted to share something very special – I'm a private person on some things – Not many people know this. When I was pregnant with my youngest son Isaiah, I asked Jack if we could name our son Isaiah Slavver after my Uncle Tom, because he was always there for us when we were young, getting on our feet. (Jack and I lived with my Aunt & Uncle for a short time) Of coarse, he agreed, hence why our son: ‘Isaiah (Thomas) Slaver’ was named after my uncle.....I'm so glad we did!
Much Love from your niece and cousin,
~Lynne Ellen
Message from Janice
February 10, 2017 1:32 PM
This is late, I just saw this obituary! My condolences to Tom's family, he was a special person! I enjoyed working at DAI while he was there! Enjoyed our conversations, thought the world of him! RIP Tom Kelley!
A candle was lit by Janice
on February 10, 2017 1:27 PM
Message from Sandy
February 2, 2017 10:04 PM
You gave it everything you had for your family. They were everything to you. Thanks for all you gave to us. Such a good man. I will miss you. ~Sandy
Message from Kelley
February 2, 2017 9:57 PM
An amazing uncle with the biggest heart! You taught me so much about being kind, forgiving and loving! I will always cherish my Sunday dinners with you that ended with "it's jammie time" I love you Uncle Tom!
Message from Rick
February 2, 2017 8:20 PM
Too many great memories. A great brother and family man. I am proud to be your brother.
Love Rick
Love Rick
A candle was lit by Shannon and Joe
on February 2, 2017 8:12 PM
A candle was lit by Brian, Amy, Ellie and Alyssa McVoy
on February 2, 2017 6:33 PM
A candle was lit by Darren & Jennifer Mc Gwynne
on February 2, 2017 6:16 PM
A candle was lit by Jack & Lynne
on February 2, 2017 5:21 PM
A candle was lit by Bob Kelley
on February 2, 2017 2:08 PM
Message from Bob Kelley
February 2, 2017 2:08 PM
Such great sadness to hear of Tommy s passing. May he rest in peace. Love and prayers . Bobby
Message from Anna (Rao) DiSanto
February 2, 2017 12:40 PM
To Patty,Ricky,Betsy and Shannon and families. I have so many memories having you all as neighbors, growing up next door on Font Grove Road. Please except my sympathy for your great loss of Tommy!
Message from Regina Yakel Stewart
February 2, 2017 12:28 PM
Thank you Tommy for allowing me to be part of the family. For genuinely acknowledging me when we saw each other with a hug, smile and chat. You've made an impact on my life and I will always think of you with happiness in my heart. Much love to you today and always.
A candle was lit by Regina Yakel Stewart
on February 2, 2017 12:24 PM
Message from Anna (Rao)DiSanto
February 2, 2017 12:24 PM
To Patty,Ricky and Betsy,I'm so sorry for the loss of your brother Tom. I have so many memories with you , Patty , Ricky and Betsy growing up as neighbors next door on Font Grove Road. Unfortunately didn't really know Shannon but I just know she was a fun person as you all were too! We had great times growing up together with you! My sad sympathy goes to you and your families!
A candle was lit by Lisa
on February 2, 2017 11:57 AM
A candle was lit by Siobhan Byron
on February 2, 2017 11:22 AM
A candle was lit by Carol Blodgett his cousin
on February 2, 2017 11:01 AM
A candle was lit by Carol Glatz
on February 2, 2017 10:38 AM
A candle was lit by Julie
on February 2, 2017 10:28 AM
A candle was lit by Jim and Diane Cummings
on February 2, 2017 10:06 AM
A candle was lit by Nephew, Joey. Love you Uncle Tom.
on February 1, 2017 7:35 PM
A candle was lit by Fionn
on February 1, 2017 6:24 PM
A candle was lit by Maeve
on February 1, 2017 6:24 PM
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