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M. Raymond O'Brien

September 3, 1927 ~ February 24, 2015 (age 87) 87 Years Old
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A candle was lit by Mario Milanese on March 9, 2016 1:33 PM
Message from Erich & Joanne Komdat Jr
March 25, 2015 7:51 AM
To all the O'Brien family, we just heard of your loss of Ray. It was an honor to know him from our summer retreat at Taconic Lake.
May he rest in peace after a life well lived.
Message from Peggy briggs lonergan
March 6, 2015 6:13 PM
Such a wonderful family , we were fortunate enough to live across Madison st from them,,from 1946-1948. A wonderful experience for all of our family. I maintained a friendship with Terese for many years beyond and have so many memories, of sitting on that wonderful porch and passing nights in the little sitting room, beyond Rays Dads office. I know your loss must be hard to bear, but a good man is now offering up prayers for all of us still here. I am so glad an old classmate from St Marys' thought to call me and share the news., All of you are in my thoughts and prayers..
Message from Ken Barbera
March 5, 2015 11:59 PM
He was a great man, his spirit, good will, and kindness will be remembered and passed on to all that knew him. He was the head of the family that I considered to be my second family at Taconic Lake. Mr. O'Brien was a true treasure and will be dearly missed. I wish all his family strength and comfort at this time and the days ahead.
Message from Debbie Poulin
March 5, 2015 9:32 PM
My sincere sympathies to the entire O'Brien family. Regretfully, I was unable to attend the beautiful services that honored him. I will always remember how special he made each kid at TLA feel. He listened to us! Or, he did a great job pretending to. Either way, he quietly earned the respect of everyone around him. He will be missed.
Message from Stephen Casey
March 5, 2015 2:30 PM
I am saddened at the passing of Mr. O'Brien. I know he is in a better place now, as he earned it every day. Not only was he a family friend but also he had a special way helping young boys and giving them the tools to sculpt their life. I would not be where I am today if he had not helped me learn about myself and my abilities. I will always remember Mr. O'Brien and only hope in some ways I can emulate his wonderful example of a life well served.
Message from Aidan Quinn
March 5, 2015 11:26 AM
Headmaster O'Brien was a wise and kind man; He had a great impact on those of us that attended St Gregory's under his thoughtful guidance.
Message from Evan Quinn
March 4, 2015 8:44 PM
To the O'Brien family:
I am extremely sorry for your loss. Ray was a great man, and a former high school counselor of mine at La Salle Institute. He showed unwavering compassion and empathy in everything he did, brightening everyone's day around him. He will be sorely missed by many, especially my family.

Condolences,
Evan Quinn
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A candle was lit by Esther on March 4, 2015 10:20 AM
Message from Esther Fishman
March 4, 2015 10:19 AM
Mary, What an impressive life your dad lived and what a handsome man he was. Knowing you tells me a lot about the kind of person your dad was and what a great role model you had. Wishing you love and comfort.
Message from Maria and John Kent
March 3, 2015 9:05 PM
To Anne and all your family: Reading through your Dad's obituary, it is so apparent how committed he was to his family, the community and education. We are very sorry for your loss and hope that you find comfort in being together at this time of sadness.
Message from Andrea Thomas Molloy
March 2, 2015 8:05 PM
Mr. O'Brien was one of the wonderful fathers of TLA who made the quality time at the Lake with family and friends special and memorable. My thoughts and prayers go out to the O'Brien Family and their loved one. Mr. O'Brien was another dad who made a difference.
Message from Andrea Molloy
March 2, 2015 7:48 PM
My thought and prayers go out to Mary, John, Katie, Michael, Joe, Annie, Martin,
Message from Mary Flack Hammond
March 2, 2015 12:13 AM
Mary T and family,
I never got to meet him, but I know with certainty he must have been a remarkable man to have raised such a wonderful family. Memories of your family stories (told on trains and in cafes) are among my favorites. My sincerest sympathies for your loss! -- Mar
Message from Sheila O'Brien ND '77 '80L
March 1, 2015 11:40 PM
Dear Mary T. and family, Sending sympathies and prayers on the loss of your Dad. What a great life and great family. And, he served in both the navy and the army? Amazing. I will be at Notre Dame this week and light a candle at the Grotto for him, you and your whole family. With Love, Sheila O'Brien
Message from Mrs. Richard C.Davis, (Julia Del Monaco) So. Glens Falls, N.Y.
March 1, 2015 2:13 PM
Sorry to read the news, Ray was our class president, Class of 1945 at St. Mary's Academy, a great person. He and Fr. John Falcone were constant companions and usually cutting up. Remember the good times.
Message from Julia Del Monaco Davis, a graduate of 1945, St. Mary's Academy, Raymond was our class President.
February 28, 2015 8:21 PM
Raymond was exceptional as were his parents, fun into antics with Fr. John Falcone years ago. So sorry, God be with you all.
Message from Susan Bleau Delano
February 28, 2015 1:51 PM
To all of the wonderful O'Brien family, my heartfelt sympathies to you. My memories of your dad are of his warm smile and kind and gentle nature. What a legacy of love he leaves to all who knew him. Thinking of all of you at this deeply sad time.
Message from Susan Bleau Delano
February 28, 2015 1:51 PM
To all of the wonderful O'Brien family, my heartfelt sympathies to you. My memories of your dad are of his warm smile and kind and gentle nature. What a legacy of love he leaves to all who knew him. Thinking of all of you at this deeply sad time.
Message from Marybeth Castraberti
February 28, 2015 7:49 AM
Mr. OBrien was one of the great Dads of Taconic Lake. Many of us were lucky to grow up at TLA with some wonderful men who were fathers to all of us. My prayers are with all the OBriens.
Message from Rev. John D. Kirwin
February 27, 2015 1:14 PM
In the words of Paul the Apostle: 'Strong, loving and wise. . .' Peace and prayers to all his family, on his passing to the fullness of life.
Message from William A. Healey III
February 27, 2015 10:36 AM
To the O'Brien family, I was truly saddened to hear of Mr. O'Brien's passing. He had a profound influence on every young man who was lucky enough to attend Saint Gregory's School. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Message from Ken Bleau
February 27, 2015 8:28 AM
O’Brian Family of friends,

I am saddened by this news but I am also counting myself fortunate for having the opportunity to know your dad. These memories will be with me forever. He leaves behind a strong legacy. All of you are great individuals and I’m pretty sure some of that is due to your dad.

Thoughts are with you more today more than other days.
Message from Pat and Terry Chambers
February 26, 2015 11:04 PM
Heartfelt sympathy to Marion and the entire family. We pray you will be sustained by the many memories you shared and the love and support of your many friends and family. Ray was a true family man who will be remembered for his integrity and wisdom. He will be missed by all who had the privilege to know him,
Message from Bob & Joan Ives. Laurie and Charlie Contompasis
February 26, 2015 10:27 PM
Dear Marion, Katie, Mike, Elizabeth & John,

We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. He was a great person and will be missed by the Taconic Lake Family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this difficult time.

Love, Bob & Joan Ives. Laurie Ives & Charlie Contompasis
Message from Patti Winch
February 26, 2015 9:24 PM
To the entire O'Brien family, but most especially, Mrs. O'Brien, Katie, Mike, Elizabeth and John - I am so sorry for your loss. I cannot believe that it has been over 30 years since I first met Katie's parents! I always enjoyed visiting with Katie's Mom and Dad whenever our college get togethers brought us near Troy. Sending lots of love - Patti
Message from John O'Brien
February 26, 2015 9:04 PM
Awesome obit! Speaks the truth of the Uncle Ray. Be at peace and pray for us!
Message from Jude Fitzsimmons williams
February 26, 2015 8:51 PM
Katie and family.
So sorry to hear about your dad's passing. I have many fond memories of your dad from our childhood. He was kind and gentle in his ways. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Love, jude
Message from Tom Driscoll
February 26, 2015 7:48 PM
The smile and the wisdom he shared with me in my youth and adolescence will forever be etched in my memory!
Rest in peace Mr. "O "!
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